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A marriage either love or arranged the first thing we
need is trust, love and understanding between the couples, with this they
can achieve anything in the world.
In arranged marriage first everything is looked in
detail by the parents then shown to their children that they r selected by
us for u, after that boy\girl meet or speak n know each other n then fall in
love with each other. But in love marriage they fall in love first n tell
their parents about their love for such a girl or boy and if the parent’s r
broad minded they support this marriages.
In arranged marriage the girl's and boy's family come
together to form into relationship, in this relationship we find so many
other relations then husband n wife who r married. In love marriage it
depends upon the two families who form a relation other than the husband n
wife.
In arranged marriages support n security comes from
both the families as when the couple are in difficultly. But in love
marriages support and security is there in families but it comes in lately
as in arranged marriages.
There are both positive n negative points in love and
arranged marriages. There are failures n difficulties in maintaining the
relationship in both love n arranged marriages.
Till date and in near future arranged marriages are
preferred over love marriage, but in future with the influence of T.V.,
Radio, we will be able to see lot of love marriages happening.
And finally after reading this it depends upon the
individual’s thinking how to feel which is better because each individual
and thinking is different from one another. So they have to take the
decision for them not us.
And I
prefer arranged marriage over love marriage becoz it’s the parents who
brought us to position we are n we have to respect their feelings than they
will respect our feelings.
Article by
Rajalakshmi
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